hmmm... My friend told me that she had lost a loved one who took care of her when she was young... and she just mentioned that she found out the cause of her death and she cannot accept it....
Though I do not know the reason, I hope that she will get over it soon. What has happened has happened...Death is something which we will have to face some day....Have to learn to take it in our own stride...yes..tough it may be but we will have to pull through those hard times and tell ourselves that our loved ones who have left will want us to continue our life happily too...
I believe that the bad times we go through in life is a way to make us stronger...It is only through these experiences that we grow up and become stronger.... Some people may be fortunate that they may not have to go through a lot of "down" times....Others may not...That's just our life....No need to say it is unfair or ask why do we have to go through such times.....Instead, be brave! Face them and tell ourselves that the worst time have past, better will come. That is something which I often tell myself....
In fact, I was really amazed how strong I could be.